For example: She said she *loves* my hair, but she leaned in on the word *loves* a bit too hard, so she must secretly hate my hair. You might say, “Men are sooooo confusing.” No, they’re not. – or – She said she thinks my boyfriend doesn’t deserve me, which must secretly mean she knows something I don’t and wants to sabotage my relationship. The *only* important part of his message is “I don’t want to be in a relationship”… Just because you don’t like what they’re saying doesn’t mean that they’re being confusing. But you want the best best best indicator of how a man feels about you? The next morning I asked if he meant everything he texted and he said “yes, a drunk man means whatever he says.” I asked the same question to all my male friends and got mixed replies and now I’m more confused. Some people are relatively unaffected personality-wise when they drink while others turn into totally different people (sometimes monsters, sometimes lovey-dovey, sometimes loud and boisterous, sometimes sad, etc.) It’s a mind-altering substance, not truth serum.Moreover, I see the same trap over and over again with women trying to understand men…Some tell me that I should text him and tell him that I don’t want to do it anymore and others tell me that I should just stop texting and just ignore him if he reaches out, which I find particularly cruel.
Have you ever had a totally hot girls sleeping over at your house and had the urge to sneak in on them and check out their pussies while they sleep?That may seem a bit strange, but you tell yourself you’re just talking so it is okay.And there is such a need to talk, one that hasn’t been satisfied in a long time.However, the conversations eventually become very personal and the talk turns toward relationships, specifically the primary relationship that one or both partners are currently in.Suddenly you find yourself sharing aspects of your marriage or primary relationship that you have never talked about with anyone other than your partner.BUT, there is a surprisingly fine line between soundly cheesy and sounding sexy, naughty and very dirty.