They may have started dating somebody they met on that very site and just never got around to closing their account or editing their profile to indicate that they’re no longer on the market.
Ultimately it doesn’t matter: they’re never going to respond to you, so you may as well quit worrying about ’em.
And it’s hard to get the girl (or guy) if you never communicate.
Instead, opt for options such as the next three most popular greetings, which perform better with response ratings.
These include “how’s it going,” “what’s up,” and even “yo.” All were shown to get more replies than the more standard “hellos.” In fact, it’s better to use no traditional salutation at all than one of the top 3 introductions listed initially.
I asked her to write an email to one of her matches, but not send it.
She gave me her permission to cut and paste the email into this post: “Hi John ! Work was just out of hand today…Had 3 meetings and the second one caused me to be late for the third one.
This article is going to teach you how to write a great (not good) email on e Harmony or any other online dating service.