The problem is that I really like both of them and they both seem to be really amazing guys.They follow up, they text, we talk, make plans…it’s all good. On the other hand, I don’t know how to manage this.By selecting just one person and telling all the others no thanks you could be potentially eliminating other good choices in case this one decides to take off, and then where does that leave you..leaves you with nothing!I am noticing several women asking me indirectly how the dating thing is going and if I have met others and then getting bent out of shape if I mention that I am also talking to other girls and one told me upfront that she doesn't want to date guys who are also dating others at the same time.They go out with whoever happens to cross their path and then don't look any further.This person is fine, so there's no need to cast around for others, right? While you may need to do a little more leg work, and while it may require going on a lot more dates, it is absolutely worth it to get uncomfortable and to leave your dating comfort zone. Meeting and attracting amazing men and women happens to those who have an "abundance mindset." When you develop an abundance mindset, you see that the people who come into your life are ones to whom you are very attracted.
Some forums can only be seen by registered members.I want to talk about multiplicity in your dating life. They think someone who dates several people at once must be a cheater, a commitment-phobe or at a minimum, a liar.While this may be true of some women who are dating multiple people, I actually believe that there are many good (and, in fact, great) reasons to date several different people when you're single.I know I need to make a decision before things go too far (becoming too physical), but how do I know when?I am trying not to let things move too fast physically or emotionally, but they both seem very interested and I just don’t know what to do.At that point it was more just meeting people than actual dates.