One of the most common questions divorced parents ask me is: When should I introduce my new partner to my children?My best answer is to take your time dating after divorce and don’t introduce your new love to your kids if you are dating casually.
They meet, and a few months later, introduce their new partner to their kids.
For many single parents, dating is exciting and scary at the same time.
On one hand, you can hardly contain your enthusiasm for your new love interest.
Just as you needed time to adjust and learn new things about him, allow your child the opportunity to form their own relationship with him too. When you’ve decided it’s time, start with a no-pressure meeting.
Maybe have him meet you at the park bench while the kids are playing.
Whether someone emails us an “Ask the DUO” question on our website, during a client interview or interacting with great folks we meet on our book tour, one question that’s regularly posed to us is, “If I’m starting over again, when is it a good time to introduce my children to someone I’m dating, and what’s the best way?